Take time for yourself and the other relationships that you care about.

Saying "no" to things involving the care of your mother is a selfish action.

You made a promise to your mother that you need to keep.

Involve your mother in the decision making process.

Moving your mother into a care facility will show her that you do not love her.

Helping your mother should be easier than raising a child.

Avoid discussion of negative situations that may occur in the future

It is okay not to love or like your mother when you are feeling overwhelmed