“That kind of reaction is very rare after so long a time. It would be best to avoid the cemetery on dates that might trigger this type of reaction."

I find that hard to believe. We all grieve the same way, and know that I would not react that way after such a long time."

"The fact that you reacted so strongly is concerning to me. This could be the beginning of some psychological issues."

"What happens to you is understandable and common in people who have lost loved ones."